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Where can I go for support for my mental health as a new parent?

EK360 • Apr 29, 2022

Where can I go for support for my mental health as a new parent?

Your mental health is important, both for your wellbeing and your child’s. It’s important that you feel supported throughout your journey of becoming a parent and have a safe space to talk about how you are feeling.

Take a look at the information below to find out where you can go to get the support you and your family need. 

Are mental health problems common during and after pregnancy?

Yes, you are not alone in how you feel. 

NICE guidelines say that depression and anxiety are the most common mental health problems during pregnancy, with around 12% of women experiencing depression and 13% experiencing anxiety at some point; many women will experience both. Depression and anxiety also affect 15‑20% of women in the first year after childbirth.

How will my mental health be affected during pregnancy?


How your mental health is affected during pregnancy depends on many things. These include:

  • The type of mental illness you have had already.
  • Stopping medication for a mental health problem - you have a high risk of relapse if you do this when you become pregnant. This is more likely if you have had a severe illness, several episodes of illness or a recent episode.
  • Recent stressful events in your life (such as a death in the family or a relationship ending).
  • How you feel about your pregnancy - you may or may not be happy about being pregnant.
  • Upsetting memories about difficulties in your own childhood.


Read more here

Where can I go for support?

If you live in the UK and are looking for extra support or advice urgently, whether it be on behalf of you or a loved one, there are a number of services you can approach. 


If you're in a crisis and need urgent help:

If you don't feel you can keep yourself safe right now, seek immediate help by visiting your nearest Accident & Emergency (A&E) department or call 999.

If you need urgent support but don't want to go to A&E:


Talk to your health professional

During pregnancy, you can talk to your midwife, GP or health visitor at any time if you're worried about your mental health. They should ask if you have ever had problems with your mental health in the past, and whether you have been bothered by feeling down, hopeless or unable to enjoy things lately.

Don't be afraid to tell your midwife or health visitor how you're feeling. This can help them to identify if you are unwell or might become unwell.


Questions to ask about mental health problems in pregnancy and the year after birth


Knowing the right questions to ask can be difficult, particularly when you are feeling worried or stressed. Take a look a these questions put together by NICE to help you discuss your condition or the treatments you have been offered.

Find out more



Find support local to you

Netmums provide a search for local mental health support by area or postcode. Take a look at the mental health support available in your area using the link below. If you need further help in finding the right support contact us here

Find out more


Bump, birth and Beyond is a team of specialist mental health midwives that helped hundreds of women and families each year to get the support they need.They can help you too!

Find out more


Perinatal Mental Health Community Service (PMHCS) East Kent 

Find out more 


Other services that can provide you with support

Action on Postpartum Psychosis (APP)

Postpartum psychosis is a rare but serious mental health illness that can affect a woman soon after she has a baby. Find out more about the symptoms here

APP offer a peer support service, connecting women and families to recovered volunteers, via: an online peer support forum; one to one email support; meeting a volunteer programme (Skype and in person); social groups and creative workshops.

Guidance for women and their partners that have experienced Postpartum Psychosis can be found here.

www.app-network.org

Email: app@app-network.org


Association of Postnatal Illness

Postnatal depression is a type of depression that many parents experience after having a baby. It's a common problem, affecting more than 1 in every 10 women within a year of giving birth. It can also affect fathers and partners. Find out more about the symptoms here.

Get in touch for some friendly advice, or just to talk. 

10am – 2pm – 0207 386 0868

apni.org

Email: info@apni.org


Maternal OCD

Maternal OCD  refers to new mums experiencing obsessions and compulsions. Whilst they may vary from patient to patient, a common underlying factor is high levels of responsibility for preventing harm or mistakes.

Get in touch with Maternal OCD for more information and to enquire about their peer support. 

www.maternalocd.org

Email: info@maternalocd.org



PANDAS

PANDASD help to support and advise any parent experiencing a perinatal mental illness. They can also advise and guide family members, carers, friends and employers as to how they can support someone who is suffering.

www.pandasfoundation.org.uk/

9am-8pm daily – 0843 2898 401

Email: info@pandasfoundation.org.uk


Tamba

Twinline is Tamba’s listening service for parents of twins, triplets and more. All the calls are answered by volunteers who have multiples themselves.

10am - 1pm and 7pm - 10pm daily - 0800 138 0509

www.tamba.org.uk/support/twinline

Email: asktwinline@tamba.org.uk


Tommy’s

Tommy’s offers support to women who have suffered the loss of a baby as well as support for those who have had a difficult or traumatic pregnancy, birth or postnatal period.

Monday to Friday 9am – 5pm - 0800 0147 800

www.tommys.org

Email: midwife@tommys.org


Thank you to the Maternal Mental Health Alliance for working with us to put this list together. Take a look at their work online


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